Love & Relationships

Is proper Zoning essential? Yes it is!!! How can we delve into extraordinary sex without giving respect to Erogenous Zones?

Erogenous Zones are areas of the body, when stimulated, create sexual arousal. Since Women have more zones than Men, my primary topic will focus on us girls. If I were to randomly ask people to name a few erogenous zones on a woman’s body, I’m sure the top 2 answers would be the clitoris and breast. If the goal is to get the fire burning and fast, you could never ever go wrong with those two areas of the body. But..In this sex series we’re going for extraordinary, right? Since we already know how to get the fire burning and fast, let’s talk about a slow simmer.
We love to be “worked” on, so take your time and go all out with the music, candles, oil etc. When she opens the door and sees what you have done for her and are getting ready to do to her, you’ve just ignited the most important erogenous zone in a woman’s body;
1. Her Mind – We fantasize and romanticize every damn thing! We want for ourselves that “movie” love scene that makes us gasp in the theaters. With very little effort: a couple of candles, dim light, and a love CD you already had in the CD collection you’ve already stimulated a zone.
2. Nape of the neck – This is my favorite zone because you don’t have to be naked or in a secluded private area to stimulate it which adds to the stimulation. It’s sexy to surreptitiously stimulate her in a public area and you two are the only people who know what’s going on.
3. The Butt – Light kisses with a little tongue or feather strokes on the contour of her butt sends small electric sensations to her vagina.
4. Inner Thighs – we have lots of nerve endings in this area. A sensual tease would be to kiss this area as if you are approaching the Nani, but don’t. This will cause her to throb and beg for you to make her orgasm.
5. Kissing – How can I talk about erogenous zones without giving special tribute to the one that wakes all of them up! For us girls it was a Kiss, in our adolescence, which made us realize something else was happening to our bodies. It was a kiss that made our minds rationalize it was okay for his hands to touch the forbidden spots. The right kiss can definitely be the prelude to a euphoric experience.

If your woman is not “vocal” or it’s difficult to measure her level of arousal, listen to her breathing pattern. I don’t care how dead she is with noise; her breathing will always give way to how aroused she is.
Those are my top 5, what about yours? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !

It’s really a good thing to be ambitious. I love ambitious people who take the initiative to make things better than they are. Imagine if the creation of ice cream flavor stopped with Vanilla. Vanilla is cool….we love it, but because someone was ambitious and took initiative, we now get 31 plus flavors.

Now,..Let’s talk about the bedroom because that is where I seem to be most ambitious! Ladies I know you do a spectacular job pleasing your man (orally), but for those of you whose men are blessed in the middle, gag reflex can disturb the flow of really good mouth rhythm. The gag reflex is another protection of the human body to prevent you from choking. Specifically the reflex is a contraction of the back of the throat induced by touching the soft palate. The contraction prevents something from entering the throat unless it is part of normal swallowing. In layman terms; when Big Daddy hits the back of your throat with his penis, your gag reflex kicks in to keep Big Daddy from choking you. The problem is that this IS the one time you want to…..well….go deep but without the gagging.

I have never been one to introduce a problem without suggesting a solution, so I have a couple of wonderful tips that will make going deep a full pleasure experience for you and your man.

1. The Experiment -The reason your gag reflex kicks in so quick is because the back of the throat is a sensitive area. Large items which obstruct your airway are not meant to peruse back there so the reflex kicks in almost before Big Daddy hits the back of your throat. I want to give you an experiment that will de-sensitize your reflex allowing you to go deep. For two weeks, when you brush your teeth in the morning, brush the back of your tongue just past your tonsils. You will feel the urge to gag immediately but brushing lightly in this area daily makes the back throat area less sensitive. Your gag reflex relaxes because it is getting used to something hitting the back throat. The first three days will be rough, but you will begin to notice a difference by day 4 or 5.

2. Chloraseptic- yeah you know that little spray that we use to numb our sore throats when we are sick? It’s not just for sore throats anymore. The active ingredient that causes your throat to go numb also numbs your gag reflex. If you spray your throat a few minutes before sex, you can go deep for a long time with zero reflex of any kind. Now when you walk the medicine isle, you will never look at Chloraseptic the same.

Some of you are probably all offended and appalled that I’m speaking on how to make Big Daddy smile a little wider, but that just means you have a Little Daddy who ain’t taking care of business at home and likely not making you feel elevated to the highest high. This one ain’t for you anyway.

This one is for my Ladies married or in a Relationship with a man who makes her feel like the sun sets and rises at her command. This is for the Ladies whose mere thought of her man causes her Nani to throb and get moist. In addition to putting it down in the bedroom he got Home taken care of too. For all that, the least you can do for Big Daddy is Go Deep!

I want feedback from you and maybe your own personal techniques you subscribe to….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !

Godspeed
~Latoya~