My Extraordinary Sex Series wraps up with the last five topics. I love writing about sex because I feel we have to be reminded of how sacred and intimate that component of our relationship is. It’s the only part of us that is not shared with other people. It’s that deep emotional and spiritual time set aside for us to commune with our spouse; a physical communication where our bodies express with one another.
How does something so intimate get pushed to the back burner? And, how does an extraordinary experience become so ordinary?
Keeping it sexy and thriving can be a goal when so much is demanded of your time. With children, career demands, and outside commitments, by the end of the day you’ve been pulled in so many directions that there isn’t much gas left in you to go on. You go to sleep and do the same thing the next day leaving no energy for the person who loves you the most.
Extraordinary sex is not about being Superman or Superwoman in the bedroom. It’s about remembering when sex with your spouse was incredible and unbelievable. You were open minded, uninhibited and willing to do almost anything to please your Love. If you take away one thing from this series, its’ Remember and Renew (I know ..that’s 2 things). Remembering how it feels to hear her moan for you when you awaken her zones, or the way her back arched when she felt that intensity pour from her G-spot. Remembering when foreplay was as rewarding as intercourse and routine never entered the bedroom and more importantly; renewing your passion for one another.
Now that I’ve given you my formula for extraordinary sex, what yours?…..I’m listening….Holla at ya Gyrl!
Godspeed
~Latoya~
Tags: couples, g-spot, intercourse, marriage, passion, remember and renew, Sex
My formula…. take my time. Let my eyes take in the sights briefly, then let hands be my eyes, and finally my lips be my hands. That can USUALLY bring her out of even a dead sleep.
Other than that, just make sure there’s alot of skin to skin contact and you got properly trained on “zoning” requirements.
Getting Grown,
I love how you said,
“Let my eyes take in the sights briefly, then let hands be my eyes, and finally my lips be my hands”
Very nice,
Latoya
My formula is to capture her Mind, Body, and Soul…
Within her Mind I place the vision of our love and act of making love, I open up to her to allow her to open up to me.
With her Body I learn to the places to touch her, and the places to not. I master these areas to the point that I know her explosion point. Then I push a little more each time.
With her Soul I stay connected, I make our time together, “Out Time Together” I treat her as the Queen she is with the expectations of being treated as her King.
XPress
XPress that sounds pretty deep…Is there anyone in your life receiving that Mind Body and Soul love?
Latoya
Yes,
It’s she’s a love lost, that has been found again. She holds my heart as I hold hers. I give her all of me, and she returns it back. Its scary how in sink we are.
Thanks for asking, know that I read you site each week, I may not chime in, but I’ve always soaked up your words.
-XPress
You know, i dont even like sex like that…but when i am making love (sex) whatever, my focus is always on HIM!!!
My head game is off the freakin hook!!!
but i aim to please its all about him…..whatever daddy wants daddy gets!