I want to spend a few topics focusing on the different types of Orgasms a woman can have. We all know about the most common ones like vaginal and clitoral. Although any type of Orgasm a woman is able to experience without faking is good, I want to get out of “regular” and delve into Intense and extraordinary. This is an area where Men rule because Men are guaranteed to ejaculate with EVERY sexual experience they have, bottom line. With Women it’s not always that easy so we get a broader spectrum of alternatives and the Men in our lives have the exclusive opportunity to gift us with an orgasm. This week I have chosen to talk about the “G”.
Much debate still continues over whether the G-spot exists. At this point in my life I’m convinced that Women who feel the G-spot is a myth has never experienced an orgasm from the G, and Men who agree the G-spot is a myth have no clue how to find it. Patience is a Virtue when locating the G, because if you have never been there it’s likely you won’t find it if you give up too quickly. The worst thing you can do is become so fixated on trying to find your woman’s G-spot that your sexual experience with her becomes sterile and rigid as opposed to a sensual journey.
A G-spot orgasm is more intense and heightened than a vaginal one. You will know when you hit your woman’s G-spot because she will release a sound unlike any you have ever heard and her back will arch so high even you will be amazed! Now let’s find it.
Women can also locate their own G-spot, but for the purpose of clarity, I’m writing this with the intention of a couple doing this together. First, slowly insert your finger (s) inside the Nani crooking it forward in a “come here” motion until you are up to the second knuckle. The texture of her vagina should feel slightly bumpy or ridged. That’s when you know you have entered the “G”. The other tell tale sign is that is that her breathing and movement is noticeably heavier.
She won’t orgasm immediately but she will lose ALL control of her body. The intensity of her orgasm depends on the pressure you give to get her there. It varies. This is something you will have to experiment with. If her G-spot is swollen, she is already fully aroused and the blood has rushed to that area. She is on the brink of orgasm and your “come here” motion should start at least at medium to heavy pressure. That’s it! All you have to remember is “come here”.
Ladies have you experienced the “G”? Fella’s can you stimulate the “G” and give your woman one of the most incredible orgasms ever?…I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !
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WOW!!!!!!!!!!
Are you saying the “G-spot” can only be located with a finger??
As a male i have only tried to please my partner and i had found her “G-spot” many years ago and it does feel as you say a little rough — i will also ad that scientists have agreed that “some” ladies have a “G-spot” — i suggest that they still need to do more research as if some have all will have it
As you suggest its not about trying to find it — its about trying to please your partner as much as possible but if you can add that as well — then enjoy
Mrs. Williams
I would suggest locating your Gspot with your finger first so that you/he can get familiar with where it is. Once your able to gauge it, then its easy to determine the type of sex position you need to be in to penetrate that area. Enjoy the journey!
real intense in here … u have to make it a point to b deligent w/ ur partner and please him/her .. by saying that finding the
“spot” is work in itself… and although most ppl dont want too work and jus get off … real soon u will have alot of alone time till u get some akrite in u … one !!!!!
Exactly Big Reub; FIRST its about pleasing the one you love, slowing down the pace, and not rushing to the prize. Alone time is not good..We want some Together time!
~Latoya~
hmmm sadly but true…
I’ve never experience the G… 
wow I am so courious now…
Yes…soooooo intense, you’ll definitely noticed the difference between the G from the other type of orgasms.
LOL, THIS IS SO INTERESTING AND CRAZY, DUE TO LATOYA BEING MY AUNT, I HAD TO CLOSE MY EYES AND ERASE ANY THOUGHT OF HER TALKING ABOUT HER G” SPOT…..WHEEWWWW, GOT THAT OUT MY HEAD, NOW LET ME SAY I HAVE NOT AT THIS TIME EXPERIENCE THAT AND THAT IS SO FUNNY, IS THERE ANOTHER WAY IM NOT A FAN FINGERS IN ME, I CRINGE WHEN MY OBGYN HAS TO DO IT, SO I HOPE THERE IS ANOTHER WAY, I MIGHT SOUND IMMATURE BUT I AM VERY IGNORANT WITHIN THIS G’ SPOT CONVERSATION , BUT IS IT LIKE A BUTTON YOU PUSH ONCE INSIDE, I JUST WONDER, LET ME WORK THIS OUT WITH MY OTHER HALF AND SEE WHEN WE CAN CONFIRM YOUR THEORY AND I’LL GET BACK TO YOU….
MS. NAY (KEEPING IT REAL)
MY BAD WITH MY TYPE O, IS THAT HOW YOU SPELL IT , I MEANT IM NOT A FINGER FAN….OPPPS, TO ALL THE ENGLISH PROFESSORS ONLINE
MS. NAY(KEEPING IT REAL)
Ms. Nay,
This is a “Sex Series” and its for “big girls and boys”. So put your big girl thinking cap on and act like the grown ass woman you are..Lol!
Seriously..if your OBGYN had the face and sex appeal of Nelly, you would have to remind yourself its a medical exam and not a date!
~Latoya~
(keeping it real, too)
If the right spot is touched,u will know cause u will feel like u have lost 50lbs of stress.
Experiencing a “G-Spot” orgasm is like no other and not all men can take you there or know how or where to find it. I have experienced it which is difficult to describe. It’s like a volcanic explosion between the two bodies and afterwards I always roll over and sleep for hours. It’s the ultimate climax which leaves you totally exhausted but relaxed like you are floating on air. Every ounce of stress you had was released.
hmmm…it took 8 years of marriage for me to experience a G-Spot orgasm…Personally i think that’s a problem….i feel that a man should always take the time to eplore his wife, (girlfriend), whatever, body…i cant stand selfish lovers!!!!!!
interesting…i have experienced this, but more often with myself than with my man, but i thought there was more than one G-spot? and are your “come here” pointed toward your insides or toward your anal area? confused about the positioning…and dont men have a G-spot or two also? sex is such a confusing subject since there are so many opinions and scientific research, how do u know what is what? ugh