Love & Relationships

I saw a story on the news not long ago. The story featured a man who loved his wife so much he wrote her love letters every single day of their relationship. This couple had been married for over 30 years and for 30 years, every day, his wife received a letter. Although I would never ever hold anyone to such a standard, the beauty of the story is its purity. The glue that kept this couple together was something as simple as a daily expression written from his heart. Some men just don’t get that.

The reason a woman begins to open her heart to her suitor is because of the way he is Romancing her. When a man Romances a woman he is letting his guard down and peeling away some of the roughness to reveal a softer side of him self. In his quest for a permanent position in her heart, he is doing things he once thought were silly. Writing letters, poems, cooking special meals, sharing intimate details about himself he would not normally share, and his abundance of his affection are all Romantic deeds us women soak up like a sponge.

We fall in love with you because of that.

Nothing is more wonderful than being Romanced by someone you love and adore. My heart melts when a man has the ability to make me blush only with the words he speaks. The act of being Romantic has more to do with opening your heart and imagination than it does your wallet. It’s about your effort and genuine need to do special things for your woman that is of you and from you. Being Romantic is giving of your self and creating those moments sacred to you and her.

If all men could aspire to be as the man who never stopped writing his love letters, Romance would never have a chance to die.

Does Romance Have to Die?….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !

Godspeed
~Latoya~

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