I saw a movie a couple of weeks ago and it was a pretty good movie, but something was missing. I couldn’t figure out what it was but I knew, instinctively, I would enjoy this movie even more if it wasn’t void of …something.
Then it hit me at the ending …there was no music. No symphony leading me to the next scene and no suspense chord to set the tone. It made me realize the importance of music in a movie and how a scenes pace is set with sound and tone.
I link this analogy with Sex and sound. I’m very expressive in the bedroom especially with sound. Like a movie paced by it’s music, it takes no effort to figure out what stage of arousal I’m in and the amount of pleasure I’m experiencing. Vocal expression, sex-talk, and pace of breath are as much of the experience as is intercourse. But for vocal expression to be truly appreciated, it has to be natural and valid. Trying to squeal louder than Jenna Jameson or Heather Hunter before your man has even inserted is phony and fraudulent. Your man knows the difference between an exaggerated sound and a real one, so please don’t insult his intelligence.
To be successful in giving your man a superlative mind phuc, you have to first establish your level of comfort and willingness to surrender your reservations to all those erogenous zones your man is inciting. If you’re saying in your head, “I like that”, let those words whisper from your lips into his ear and he will continue with an enthusiastic boost. Throw away all discomfort and apprehension. Give your self permission to moan, exhale, encourage, and boldly tell him;
“I want you to hurt the…”
Whew!….you know what I mean…What was I talking about? Oh yeah, releasing your melodic, harmonious, pleasure sounds so that your love making isn’t void of ANYTHING!
Is Vocal Expression important to you? I’m listening….Holla at ya Gyrl !
Godspeed
~Latoya~
