When Eve bit that forbidden apple she left us ladies with more than painful child birth. Sadly, for many women, acheiving orgasm is about as regular as a stranger handing you a $100.00 dollar bill. Furthermore there are a few of us who haver never even attempted the big “O” through masterbation (stop gasping!).Yet we mislead our men into thinking a great thing is happening during sex. We have mastered the “oohs and ahhs”, heavy tempered breathing, and high pitched screams creating the fallacy we are climaxing. So what is the problem? Do we place the blame on ourselved for not being vocal and upfront about our pleasures? or do we blame the men who choose to ignore you when you are honest?
Ladies, Holla at me and tell me why you choose to keep faking it. Men, holla at me and tell me why your woman is not climaxing.
I’m married and in a wonderful, caring, sexually active relationship now, but… when I was younger and doing my thing, I never faked it! I didn’t care about bruising a man’s ego if he was wasting my time. Somebody has to tell them!!! I’ve learned that men are typically very straight forward creatures and WANT US TO TELL THEM how to please us and they’re very eager learners. You just gotta get over the hump of telling him he isn’t “getting the job done” and they will make drastic improvements. Everybody likes different things, so tell him what YOU like! It’s not fair to let him probe in mental darkness just guessing.
Kudos to you for having a 100% success rate and you are absolutely right. Women are natural nurtures and protectors. We do not want want to hurt anyones feelings, let alone the men we love. I think a man would be appreciative to know that he has without a doubt satisfied his woman, BUT some do get offended and do their own thing regardless of how much you try to guide them. This is definitely one area of the relationship a woman should not have to worry about bruising her man’s ego.
i would hope that no lady i have been with has had the urge to fake it — if i was not satisfactory i would hope there was enough trust to let me know and work on any problems —- while i say would do anything i could to please her there are some things that i would baulk at —- the first would be getting someone else in the bed — ive heard of too many times when a loving relationship was broken up because of someone else coming into the act — if my lady does not want to be with me then i truly would want her to tell me and leave if she will be happier —- i could go on for a long time but i wont — suffice to say as long as my lady is happy being with me then thats all i need — if she wants to leave and will be happier then that is ok as well
I SAY HEY GET ON TOP AND GET WHAT YOU WANT AND THEN GO TO SLEEP , WHATEVER, BECAUSE I JUST CAN’T FAKE IT, I HAVE TOLD MY EX AT ONE POINT INSTEAD OF ICE CUBE MOVIE “ARE WE THERE YET” , I HAD MY OWN TITLE “ARE YOU DONE YET”, YOU WOULD THINK THEY GET THE HINT, BUT SOME MEN DON’T CARE, AT ONE POINT I CAUGHT MYSELF LAUGHING, SO I WASN’T WORRIED ABOUT HIS FEELINGS BUT I DID LACK THE COMMUNICATION PART OF JUST TELLING HIM, AND NOT COMMUNICATING HAD HIM BELIEVE HE WAS PUTTING IT DOWN, AND HE DIDNT’ CHANGE, SO YES KEEP IT REAL LADIES, BECAUSE YOU BECOME UPSET AND YOU THINK HE DOESN’T CARE, BUT HE JUST REALLY DON’T KNOW……POOR THING.
MS. NAY
IF YOU ARE MY LADY , I CAN TELL . IF YOU ARE A FLING , WHO CARES !!
Dayummmmm!! Too bad for the “Flings”, but Im not on that team anyway so I don’t care either. How can you tell if she is faking? I want a detailed answer.
So many factors…..lets start with anatomy…size. The size of her pucci as well as his penis. Just in case you did not know the female anatomy is the same as a mans (sort of)…you have an innie we have an outtie….Most women think they have the golden ticket.
Most women think that their pucci is so tight and good.
to keep it real. Not the case!
They just tell you that “NOT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS”
Since were not hurting feelings….
Some women have control of their keagle muscles (pucci control). Some don’t.
As far as y u fake it its up to you to teach him your body.
Show him how to please you. Some men don’t know. Some have never been shown!
If he doesn’t want to learn or too damn stubborn…call me….(kidding)
Now if he doesn’t want to learn…he’s a selfish ass nigga and keep it pushing.
If size is the issue ….if your pucci is too big and or his dick is too small…
Get toys…ask him to think outside the box literally.
As to the question: can we tell YES!
If they are paying attention they should be able to tell.
your pucci has glands that become “bumpy” inside your pucci when your about to cum….(depends on the orgasam)
when you cum the liquid in those glands are released…thus making you cum and a beautiful fluid flows from you…
when you cum the other ways you…well i think thats enough for tonight class.
But if you gotta do all that acting to make a man think your cumin…
Concentrate and you might get one….
If he is a ego Hogg to where he won’t stop until you cum 57 times….
then You gotta tell that nigga the truth…or you will grow tired of the acting…
That or take your azz to L.A. and get your Oscar. Smile.
Ultimately ladies if he is not paying attention….
IT’S UP TO YOU! SHOW THEM EARILY THAT WAY YOU HAVE THE PROBLEM LATER…IF IT’S TOO LATE… WELL I GUESS I WILL EXPECTING YOUR CALL.
W.
Class in definitely in session, Mr. W “)
Brie
You are so Baddddd…Cut it out!
Go ahead and drop that knowledge…Mr. W
Sometimes I’m just not in the mood and it takes toooooooo long. If I wouldn’t have felt like “WE HAVE to have sex” in the first place I would probably concentrate on getting there faster. But rarely do I climax when i wasnt in the mood in the first place. plus I just love his face when he feels like I finished too. I don’t fake it all the time but I have in the past. I bet he knows it too…