With the ever changing chaos amidst what remains consistent is we can always count on a good old political sex scandal to spice things up. Many of our most notable Leaders have succumbed to public scrutiny and exposure. At this point there should be a patent on the formula for “post” affair damage control:
1. Admit to it
2. Hold a press conference and express an almost tearful apology
3. Talk about how much you let down your family and constituents
4. Have your wife standing at your side as a sign of support and unity.
What’s ironic is that what starts out as betrayal to the Spouse becomes over shadowed by the presence of public betrayal. When the media circus exposes the deed, the public official spends more time apologizing to his constituents than mending his relationship. What’s even more hilarious is the “public outrage” and backlash from wives of America who feel entitled to an apology as well.
More recently South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford went public exposing his liaison with his Argentina Hot Mamma. Bizarrely his public apology turned into a twisted admittance/declaration of his undying love for the other woman BUT his intention is to save his marriage and make amends to the people of South Carolina (Whatever!). When these incidents occur I pose the same questions;
-Is the public owed an apology when Public officials are exposed?
-Does an extra – marital affair interfere with the Public official’s ability to do his job?
Unless public funds were used to carry out the relationship, I don’t feel I have to be personally apologized to. An apology in essence should be sincere but these types of apologies are nothing but steps in the “I need to keep my job” process. I understand our leaders are held to a higher standard but where do we draw the line on having to know everything?
That’s my word now I’m waiting to hear your position….I’m listening…..Holla at ya Gyrl !
